Dear
Fellow Nigerian,
It
is my pleasure once again to gravitate into your safe and secure planetary
Internet space. Since this writer has ventured to open his heart to fellow
Nigerians it is becoming more and more difficult to keep my thoughts to myself.
Fortunately, he is now better informed that his thinking seems to tally greatly
with the thinking of most Nigerians in the Diaspora. He has also realised that
unless we open up and share the mysteries and miseries of our life we shall not
be able to understand and to appreciate that each of our problems are not
necessarily unique neither are they grossly exceptional. The mystery of life
confirms that we all feel and suffer alike. Although the degree and dimension of
our sufferings may differ yet the feeling of pain that our various sorrows and
woes bestow on each of us is same.
Before
we go too far, we need to remind ourselves again on the purpose of these
discourses and letter-writing project. In January when we wrote the first
letter, we declared quietly that our mission is to cause a social revolution to
be made in Nigeria through the efforts of Nigerians in the Diaspora (NIDs). This
kind of declaration has no doubt sent palpitation of fears into the hearts of
NIDs. Most NIDs, having secured a very promising life in the land of their
sojourn are no longer interested in any philosophy or idea or principle that
will destabilise this well-crafted image of an epitome of success. As a result
of hard work, they have been accepted as important pillars in their adopted
communities and they have since become a verifiable testimony of the immense
possibilities for achievement as well as social and economic progression that
are available in the western dream or more specifically, American Dream. There
is therefore no doubt that the entire concept of the mission of a social
revolution in Nigeria to be led by NIDs is not going to go down well with these
groups of Nigeria. To them, this writer must likely be a party wrecker, an ego
buster, a fun spoiler and definitely a messenger of bad news who should be
avoided at all cost.
However,
since the declaration of this intention, we have tried to hedge our ideas around
some important doctrines, principles, and ideas. In the last two subsequent
letters, we have written on the need for each of us to endeavour to be a seeker
of the most essential things in life. We have mentioned the need to discover the
truth of existence, as we believe it is a prerequisite qualification for the
attainment of true freedom. It should be mentioned once again that the social
revolution of Nigeria to which this writer is committed is principally about
freedom. It is about how to secure a space in which the freedom of the majority
of Nigerians can be allowed to come alive and blossom. This writer understands
that a revolution that is based on emotion without firm knowledge on the
explicit meaning of life will fail before it started. The need to secure this
mission on sound knowledge has informed the subsequent step-by-step discourse of
some fundamental values that can eventually make the mission a resounding
success.
Having
discussed the commonsense understanding of truth and knowledge, let us move on
to look at the role of fear as a possible damper or motivating force to any
dream or aspiration in life. You must have noticed that this writer as a common
Nigerian is not cerebral and has no claim whatsoever to any intellectualism. His
premises of analysis and synthesis of values are rooted in a common sense
approach. He strongly believes this approach will make more sense to fellow
Common Nigerians who are the principal focus of the dialogue. The social
revolution of Nigeria shall be initiated and led from below and by the host of
Common Nigerians. It is our desire to expose Common Nigerians to the truth of
their exploitation, to teach and to urge them to learn how to by-pass the group
of Very Important Nigerians who have used and are still using their heads to
play kokoma music and dance fox trot
as they drink champagne with their foreign partners for so long. Now then let us
move on to the topic of the moment, how can fear be a stumbling block or a
firing rod to the achievement of this important social revolution?
FEAR
AS A MOTIVATOR
The
American Heritage Dictionary defines fear as ‘a feeling
of agitation and anxiety caused by the presence or imminence of danger’.
There are generally
speaking two types of fear – rational fear and irrational fear. What makes the
difference between them is knowledge. In another word, ignorance can be
described as the mother of most irrational fears while knowledge can also be
described as the mother of most rational fears. A fear can be irrational when it
is based on religious or cultural superstitions, fables, myths, old wives’
tales etc. that have been psychologically imbibed as true into the psyche and
the subconscious mind. On the other hand, a rational fear is often based on
informed observations and valid verifiable experiences. The fear of fire to a
toddler who has been scorched once is a rational fear. The fear of a military
despot who has massacred one’s colleagues and contemporaries with a timed-bomb
or specially adapted bullets or poisons is a rational fear. The fear of armed
robbers, kill and go police officers, government and government secret agents,
and the horde of professional assassins that are rife in the fatherland is a
rational fear. The fear of political domination and economic enslavement of one
ethnic group by another ethnic group in Nigeria is a rational fear.
On
the other hand, the fear of poverty, of social exclusion, of economic and
business failure, of loss of social status, of loss of face among one’s peers,
etc. can be both rational and irrational. These latter types of fear fall into
the grey areas because they have unstable properties. They have tendencies to
change colours like chameleon. They are in most cases based on the figment of
our imaginations or emotions or on our fantasy or on the handed down fairy tales
passed on like a family heirloom or on excessive consumption of Hollywood
fictions or on our own internally generated illusions. Still this type of fears
can be very powerful in the life of those who have fallen under their control.
It is more intense in the life of those who have allowed themselves to become
victims of or slaves to the western mode of values.
It
is to the irrational fears we shall advise the NIDs to focus their attention. We
shall encourage them to seek understanding as they ask at what stage does fear
become irrational? How can anyone evaluate the nature of fear that dominates
his/her life? What can any one do to eliminate or limit the damaging and
paralysing effect of fear in one’s life? In other words how do you become free
from the bondage of fear? It is very important for us to recognise that our life
is dominated and wholly under the control of fear. Fear, whether it is rational
or irrational, has a motivational propensity. It leads to some actions or
non-actions. For example, irrational fears call for irrational rituals,
sacrifices, magic, totems, charms, etc. as means to ward off the cause and
overcome the danger of the fear. While
on the other hand rational fears would call for rational thinking, creative
planning and logical actions to stem the tide and the cause of the fear.
FEAR
OF POVERTY SYNDROME
Most
of the actions we take in life are rooted in, influenced and propelled by the
invisible power of fear. Take for instance the fear of poverty; most people are
driven to do unthinkable, unimaginable and unbecoming things in order to escape
from the evil fangs of poverty. The 419sers, the Abachas, the Babangidas, the
Abiolas, the Yar’Aduas and all other moneybags of our nations were and are
still been driven by the power of this fear. In their own intellectual reasoning
and philosophical wisdom, they have discovered the power of money as the
protector angel against the fear of poverty. They believed, and very strongly
too, that the larger the volume of dosh in the banks, in the pillow cases, in
the mattresses, in the beer and milk cartons, in the lofts, hidden under the
grounds and in every corner of the houses they owned, they would have silenced
the fear of poverty forever. In the process they are led into soul-killing
engagements and life-losing battles that will eventually cause them the loss of
both their mortal and immortal lives. A man that sins or commits evil against
other people, even if it is the thought of it within his soul, automatically
dies an eternal death. This is the natural law. And the Christian Bible confirms
this, ‘a soul that sins shall die’.
The
problem with this group of Nigerians is that they have failed to analyse more
deeply the true meaning of poverty. There is a material poverty as well as a
spiritual poverty. A person can have a house full of material wealth and still
feel very poor and empty whereas a person can be lacking in material possessions
and yet has a fulfilled life because he/she has a spiritual wealth. The problem
facing modern man is the inability to separate illusion from reality. Reality
with most Nigerians end with what they can see or touch or smell physically.
They lack understanding of another perspective of the immense invisible world.
They cannot understand the limit of their physical senses as designed by The
Creator. They are unaware that there is a spiritual sense that is far larger and
more encompassing than the physical senses. As a result of their ignorance, they
discuss reality in terms of what is physically perceptible to the sense organs.
And therefore, any other level of reality to this type of people is an illusion.
We can safely describe them as believers and worshippers of illusion of a narrow
perception of physical reality.
Unfortunately,
the entire physical reality of mankind has been crudely packaged and symbolised
under a generic value called money. Money has since become unduly over rated and
is now the most prominent idol in the life of every modern man. It is obvious
that mankind has given more than the necessary attention and a larger than life
top value to the power of money. Money is acknowledged all over the world as the
solution to all fears.
In
the context of the NIDs, our fears our numerous: for some it is the fear of
immigration laws, or the fear of racist thugs and racist law enforcement
officers, or the fear of insecurity of job and the inability to maintain present
level of lifestyles, or the fear of the debt collector. For others, it is the
fear that the lies and frauds perpetrated in the struggling years may catch up
with them to mar the fabulous success story of the poor immigrant that made it
big in the land of unlimited opportunity, or the fear of revenge from abused and
jilted lovers. And to others it is the fear that the stigma of Nigeria as a
country notorious for corruption and populated by fraudsters may attract
discrimination against them as they compete for a top positions or business, or
the loss of cultural identity as they watch their children imbibed foreign
habits and foreign values they know to be profoundly repulsive to human spirit
and existence. All these fears are real and rational and a proper analysis of
their roots, stems and branches would throw a more enlightening light on the
causes of the problem. But to consign them, as most Nigerians do, under a hazy
lazy summary that says, if only I can get hold of one million dollar or pound
then my problems would be over, is an illusion. This could be called reality of
illusion.
You
better believe it, with such money in your life, your troubles have just begun
afresh. Money carries in its baggage more troubles than the material fortunes it
bestows. And unless you understand this simple fact and deal with it
intellectually and spiritually before you stretch out your hands to welcome
money into your chamber or bed as your new found lover or life partner, you
might end up worse than when you first started to court the affection of money.
For a starter, money has no permanent devotion to any one. It is a lousy
incorrigible flirt. Its very flirtatious habits and manners dictate the
exhibitionist behaviours of its friends and lovers. Money is loud and very loud
indeed. It cannot keep quiet for a moment for it thrives best under confusion
and pandemonium. Money craves gaudy expositions and vulgar displays.
Superficially, it is both a confidence booster and an ego amplifier. And it has
the capacity to turn its friends and lovers into arrogant peacocks overnight.
So, Dear NID if you are not into such lifestyles then you need to be very
careful on the terms you are offering to god money, the messiah of our age, as
you try to lure it to become your affectionate one.
THE
AMERICAN DREAM
Unfortunately,
to those of us living in the western world particularly America, it is very
difficult to remain immune to the cultural value that sings the praise and
glorifies the messianic power of money. This writer has no quarrel with America
and their dreams but he has a lot of angst for those reaping where they have not
planted. We are definitely against the abuse and the use of the weak and
vulnerable people of the world as fuel and fodder to cook the gravy of this
so-called American Dream. Personally, this writer cringes with shame whenever
any of the international aid agencies advertise their wares on the television
with imageries and captions of suffering people from Africa. In my quiet
moments, this writer wonders why my compatriots are indifferent to the sad and
humiliating situations. He wonders why any Nigerian in the Diaspora can feel so
comfortable with his/her Big Mac, Burger King, Quarter-Pound Big Steaks, giant
size French fries, and gigantic Shopping Malls where people can shop until they
drop dead. He wonders how any African can easily fit in and imbibe, in a
generation, all the conspicuous excesses and wastefulness of essential
commodities necessary for physical existence while his/her brothers and sisters
in Africa are languishing for lack of basic wants and are gradually dying off in
larger numbers than normal as a result of inhuman deprivations. This writer
wonders!
Let
us repeat it again we have nothing against the American Dream because we know
that the Americans have a right to their fun and excesses since they earned it
with their sweat and blood. And again we understand that this is the wake of the
Western civilization before it is finally buried for good. The demise of a
civilization that derives great gains and pleasures from African-abusing,
African-baiting, African-bashing, African-enslaving, African-exploiting,
African-hating and African-ridiculing cultures shall not be mourned.
Notwithstanding, why should we grudge the Americans as they carouse and carry-on
with their hedonistic life? It is the end of a hell of a time. Americans must be
allowed to enjoy their fun to their hearts’ full desire. But what do we say
about the Johnny Just Come who refused to appreciate where the Americans are
coming from and where they are going before deciding to throw body and soul
headlong into the whirlpool of this fun and excessive conspicuous enjoyment?
Well, we shall not call anybody names but we shall leave that judgement to you.
We
should be reminded that America and Europe were built by the grit, sweat and
blood of the Americans and Europeans. How any latter day African sojourner can
feel so comfortable to the extent of building a permanent tent on this
ready-made world of others is what we are challenging and putting forward as an
agenda item for debate. We need not be reminded that Nigeria is in ruin; we all
seem to know that. But so was Europe and America before the Industrial
Revolution and the French Revolution of the eighteenth century. We now
understand that it was the effort of a pocket of visionaries in the Age of
Reason that transformed the fortunes of Europe and in turn of America. The
people that colonised America went to America with nothing but their beliefs,
determination, brain and brawn and, of course, their heartlessness.
Now
for any Nigerian to decide to run away from Nigeria because some few bad eggs
have messed up the environment and to now cultivate the attitude that says, I
don’t want to know about that country anymore is a total renege of natural
responsibility and this is definitely against moral and ethical obligations to
ones fatherland under the natural law of existence. (Please, my dear Learned
Friends don’t ask me to quote the number of the Act or under what section this
law can be found!). And to continue to throw stone of derision at those feeble
and dumb characters in charge of the affairs of the country without a serious
desire to work physically and practically in order to make a difference is pure
hypocrisy. It is the duty of a sensible Landlord to clean the filth around his
house that is about to turn his house into a wasteland. It will be foolish of
him to run away from his house because some hoodlums have occupied it
unjustifiably, with or without the pretence of a fudged constitutional right.
ZEITGEIST
Dear
NIDs these are serious issues and if any one is still not taking the idea of a
social revolution to be led by the NIDs seriously, it definitely shows a lack of
knowledge and understanding about the spirit of the moment. The Germans call
this spirit, Zeitgeist (zeit means
time + geist means spirit). This is defined as ‘the spirit of the times or the
trend of thought and feeling in a period’. This is a principle that believes
in the overriding power of the spiritual world to move mankind in one particular
direction or another. When this spirit is in flow, an entire community or
society seems to be magnetically tuned to one frequency of perception that
senses and understands the world in the same way. When the flood of this spirit
is in full flow, no one in the community or society is able to stand against it.
The history of our world has demonstrated this extraordinary spiritual and
psychological phenomenon at many instances and epochs.
With
this background, this writer will urge the NIDs to begin to see the discourses
we have so far engaged in since January with new eyes that have been sharpened
with the knowledge of the past history of mankind. The self-analysis of
individual predicaments is an important task that cannot be left to others to do
for you. If you are hoping that this writer shall be going into prolong
ontological debates on the issues under focus, then you are yet in tune with the
spirit of the time. The entire concept of these letters is to sensitise you and
to wake you up as you reach out to your library, books and Internet to seek and
search for facts that can make the analysis of your personal situation clearer
and easier to manage. There is no one-fit wear in the prognosis for the cure of
spiritual decadence in our individual lives. Each person must cultivate his/her
own medicine based on informed perception of one’s identified problems.
Furthermore,
this writer has disclosed in his last letter that he is intellectually dumb;
therefore he is not in a position to teach any one anything that you have not
already known. But his effort is being geared towards serving you as a temporary
lamp holder as he asks you to accept these letters as a flicker of light in the
dark designed to help you see as you locate where you placed the lighter and
candle of your life. As soon as you can locate the lighter and the candle of
your life and can light the candle successfully, his job as a letter writer is
over. The onus shall then fall on you to open your eyes to see and to use the
information so collected by your senses as raw materials for fuller analysis of
your life as you use the ensuing revelations as intellectual and spiritual tools
for re-ordering your life.
This,
in a nutshell, is the first battle that should be undertaking before the real
battle of the social revolution of Nigeria, to which you have been cordially
invited, can begin. Any other approach to this onerous programme will merely be
pandering untruths to bloat up your already inflated ego for nothing and this
will definitely be a lie against the truth of the moment. It is not our
intention to spoon-feed any one. It is therefore essential that you must get off
your cosy chairs to research as you seek understanding about the truth of
existence. Please stop being a ‘couch potato’ that seats and steers at the
television all day long as you watch those dumb programmes fed to you by the
morally depraved producers and directors who have unfortunately become the Grand
Tutors of debased knowledge to our children.
On
that note, we shall be taking a sabbatical break for three months from issuing
unsolicited, unwanted, unwarranted and unacknowledged letters to the Nigerians
in the Diaspora. We are not even sure if our addresses have the time to read
them less of sharing them with their families and friends. Not that it bothers
us one bit, but we shall continue to do that which we know is right for the
people of Nigeria. We are convinced that this is not a wasted effort. This
engagement can be liken to the work of a farmer that throws his seeds about in
the field of his prepared farmland. To the uninitiated in the art of farming,
they would ask why is the farmer wasting the precious seeds? Until the seeds
germinate and produce bountiful harvest, it is then the former cynics would
realise what the devoted farmer was doing after all.
This
is our goal, we sincerely believe the seeds of these letters shall find good
hearts and shall germinate with long strong roots, sturdy stems and many
branches with luscious leaves, beautiful fragrant flowers and eventually
delicious fruits of divine love. We shall not look back until this dream and
hope become a reality. So help us Almighty Creator. However, the break in letter
writing is necessary to enable you to digest properly the contents of the four
letters. And we hope when we shall come back to face more rigorous suggestions
on the practical issues that shall need to be planned and implemented you shall
all be in a better frame of mind to accept and to act on the suggestions in good
faith.
Dear
NIDs, blessed shall be the day when Nigerians shall stand by the banks of Rivers
Rhine, Thames, St. Lawrence, Mississippi and Potomac and shall dream lofty
dreams about their country. When NIDs shall dream about how they will be part of
the over-comers that shall overthrow forever the Dishonourables of Nigeria who
have been polluting and defecating openly on our sacred places. When NIDS shall
dream about willingly participating in the creative processes that will launch
the fatherland on its way into perfection as they build the Paradise that befits
the redeemed Nigerians in a New Nigeria. And more blessed shall be the day when
each NID shall decide voluntarily, and before the D-Day, to take the plunge of
physically moving back to the fatherland with nothing but his/her firm belief in
truth, faith in hard work, determination, skill, brain and brawn and of course a
purified heart filled with divine love. This is the hope and the dream we shall
continue to share with you as soon as we found the right words of inspiration
that can unlock the shackles around your souls, that shall loosen the wax in
your ears, that shall unblock the cataract of your eyes, and that shall untie
the knots on your tongues. This is our dream and may it come true, we pray.
May the Almighty Creator of Heaven and Earth give everyone true understanding as we learn to appreciate that there is no mystery-induced fear in life that knowledge cannot reveal and that there is no misery-induced fear in our personal lives that sound knowledge cannot cure as well. Please Almighty Creator give us the wisdom to understand that the only effective weapon against fear, both rational and irrational, is the knowledge of the truth and of the purpose of existence. Kindly give us a strong desire and the right spirits that shall willingly stretch us beyond endurance limit as we gladly seek the most essential truth of existence. Thank you for we are trusting in the fellowship of the spirit of truth to show us the true way and to guide us to our divine destination as faithful pilgrims and true winners in the journey of life.